Starting university can be both an exciting and daunting time. Meeting new people is a key part of this experience, and while speaking to those in your classes is a great way to make friends, there are many other opportunities to connect with people who share your interests and values.
David Gallardo González
VP Societies & Sport
Starting university can be both an exciting and daunting time. Meeting new people is a key part of this experience, and while speaking to those in your classes is a great way to make friends, there are many other opportunities to connect with people who share your interests and values. Below, I have outlined some of the ways I personally found to make lasting friendships at Royal Holloway.
Accommodation
One of the easiest ways to meet new people is through your accommodation. The people you live with are those you will see regularly, whether in the kitchen, shared spaces, or during casual conversations in the hallway. You will naturally spend a lot of time together, and these daily interactions often lead to strong friendships. Making the effort to join in with group activities, such as cooking together or attending hall events, can be an excellent way to build these relationships.
Sports Clubs
Sports are another fantastic avenue for meeting new people, and at Royal Holloway we are proud to have over 35 sports clubs. During my time here, I joined the Tennis Club and made some of my closest friends through training sessions, matches, and socials. Sports clubs offer a unique way to bond with others through teamwork, shared goals, and mutual support. Whether you are experienced or a complete beginner, there is a place for you, and the friendships you make often extend far beyond the court or pitch.
Societies
Societies bring together people with shared hobbies, passions, or cultural backgrounds, and at Royal Holloway there are over 100 societies to choose from. During my studies, I was part of the Musical Theatre Society, which allowed me to express my creativity while meeting wonderful people who shared my love for performance. Whether it’s performing arts, academic pursuits, or niche interests, there is a society for almost everything. Spending time with people who enjoy the same activities as you can make forming friendships feel effortless, and the regular events and socials provide many chances to connect.
Course Communities
Getting to know your course mates can make your academic life more enjoyable and collaborative. As you already share an interest in your subject, there is an immediate foundation for connection. Group projects, study sessions, and post-lecture discussions are great opportunities to engage with others. Building friendships within your course can also create a valuable support network when it comes to assignments, deadlines, and exams.
Give It A Go
If you are unsure which club or society is right for you, Give It A Go sessions are an excellent way to explore your options. These low-pressure, predominantly alcohol-free events allow you to try a variety of activities and meet new people in a relaxed setting. They are a great way to step outside your comfort zone and find new hobbies while expanding your social circle.
Student Communities
Royal Holloway offers nine Inclusion Communities, including Women, LGBT+, Disabled, International, and others, as well as two Academic Communities for postgraduate students. Each community is led by a Community Officer who organises events and campaigns for members. These communities provide a welcoming environment where you can connect with others who share similar life experiences, often collaborating with relevant societies and sports clubs to broaden your network.
Peer Guide Scheme
New undergraduate students are automatically paired with a Peer Guide unless they opt out. This returning student will reach out to arrange a meeting, answer any questions you may have, and offer guidance during your first weeks. Making use of this scheme can help you feel more settled and introduce you to others in your year.
Volunteering
Volunteering is a rewarding way to meet like-minded individuals while contributing to the community. In my first year, I volunteered as a videographer for the Sports Centre, which allowed me to use my creative skills, work on exciting projects, and meet people from across the university. Royal Holloway Volunteering offers opportunities both locally and abroad, ensuring there is something to suit every interest.
Hall Life
The Hall Life team consists of experienced students who have previously lived in halls. They are available to assist with questions about independent living, offer advice on topics such as homesickness, and organise events to help you meet others. Taking part in these events is a simple way to get to know fellow residents outside of your immediate flat.
Advice Centre
Located on the first floor of the Students’ Union, the Advice Centre offers free, confidential, and non-judgmental support on a wide range of topics, from academic concerns to housing issues. While it is not primarily a social space, making use of the Advice Centre can ease any stresses you may have, allowing you to focus more on building connections and enjoying university life.
Making friends at university may feel intimidating at first, but it is important to remember that everyone is in a similar position when they arrive. By getting involved in your accommodation, sports clubs, societies, and the many other opportunities on offer at Royal Holloway, you will quickly find your circle. Sometimes, all it takes is the courage to say hello.